Onwards and Upwards

To say that the last week was extremely weird and depressing would be an understatement. While being in Washington for a break is nice, being reminded that this isn't just a summer break was hard. Thankfully, I talked to a a lot of my friends from home, which really helped but not seeing the people that have been my family for the last nine months every day was a huge hit.

However, the time for sulking is over.

Don't get me wrong, I love and miss my friends and if I had a choice to do it over again, I'd stay in Canyon as long as possible to keep that phase of my life going but there are a lot of big things coming down the pike. 

For one thing, it's almost time to "repack" for another 3,200 mile journey to Lexington. I mean, how cool is that? Not only am I moving to a place where realistically part of my family got started, since my grandmother was raised in the Bluegrass, but I'm also moving to a place that I was adamant I'd move to in elementary school. Obviously that got a little off track as my first year of high school, I changed to moving to Texas. But looking back on it, I'm achieving both of my teenage dreams by going to both states for extended amounts of time.

Second, I'm working for an Olympic team. Sure, the USEF does a lot more than just the Olympic sports but in an indirect way, I am one of the heads bringing everyone news from London. My goal for the last two years has been to do something with the Olympic teams during an Olympic year (and beyond), even if it's wavered, and here I am.

Third, I'll be in horse racing country. Even though I'm still working towards the Olympic goal, one of my passions is writing about horse racing, so being in the Horse Capital of the World, especially for racers is huge. And who knows, maybe it will open up opportunities that push me in one of the many directions I've been wanting to go. Over the past few years, I've learned that opportunities come from some of the most unexpected places. So I'm definitely not closing my eyes to anything that may be sent my way.

Sure, I miss Canyon and my friends more than even a whole blog could describe but as one of my best friends said, in a few years, all of us will be gone from there doing amazing things all over the world. Heck, this same person is moving to South Korea to teach school in just a few months. And if the last week has had any lesson at all, it's that we don't need to be in the same place to stay connected. 

In fact, not being in the same place gives us the opportunity to experience new things and go on even more adventures when visiting each other. So while I'm still working on the whole moving on thing, it's just onward and upward from here. Who knows where my life will take me next.

Good Bye Time

"The sun goes down The stars come out And all that counts Is here and now My universe will never be the same I'm glad you came"

-The Wanted "Glad You Came"

What a difference a year makes. In August as I was driving to Canyon, I really didn't want to go back. I was dreading this year but returned because I just had eight months left before I walked across the WT stage with my diploma safely in my hands (really, it's a diploma holder but same difference). But oh how those eight months changed my life forever.

I originally got involved in a ton of stuff this year to make the year go by faster. But what it brought me was a ton of friends and memories. Who would have thought a house warming party for one of my first real WT friends would have started the MCOMM craze that led to all sorts of wild hijinks. And who would have known that spending extra time at school would be some of the highlights of my year. Yet both these things pushed my year from "just getting by" to "never want to end".

While I had an amazing time at WT all year, it wasn't until my journey home that I realized just how great it was. About the time I hit my second day of traveling back to Washington and got a tweet saying "Come home!" from one of my best friends did I realize that I do think of Canyon as home now. Washington may be the place I grew up and called home for 22 years, but Canyon is where I grew and where I had the best year of my life. And it's still hard to think that I won't be moving back any time soon. 

After a chat with one of my "home dogs" on this subject the other night, even though Canyon is my home now (and probably will be for a long time to come), in the coming years I will be moving a ton and will probably go through this "withdrawal" every time.

I honestly had this blog all written in my head and it was supposed to be extremely long but there are no words that can describe this last year, especially the last few weeks, so instead, I'm just going to end it with a picture and a reference to the lyrics at the top of this post "My universe will never be the same" thanks to the awesome MCOMM people that I'm proud to call my friends. This isn't good bye, it's just see you later.

A Week of Opportunity

Wow, the last week has been a whirlwind of activity. From sports to high profile speakers, I feel like I've been around the world without leaving Canyon.

The fun started last Tuesday when I went to one of the final softball home games of the season. To say it was a blowout would be an understatement as our girls scored 15 runs in the third inning and won the game 20-0. 

Less than 48 hours later, I went to the last spring season game of women's soccer and watched them play while doing what I've done best this year, taking pictures. 

The women started a weekend of sports as I spent the next night at Lady Buff Yard for a softball double header. The double header didn't see me leaving the Yard until 10:30pm after I did interviews and such. Only 14 hours later, I was back at the Yard for the final home game of the season and Senior Day. Saying goodbye to the Lady Buffs graduating was harder than imagined as I related to them since I will be leaving here in just 14 days.

After interviews were done, I did something I never thought I would do and broke down. But then I realized that even though this may be the end of my undergraduate career and the end of covering WT sports, I have many bigger and better things ahead.

Even though the softball season is technically over, I won't have a break as I am covering them from afar (aka they'll be in Denton, Tx and I'll be here) this coming weekend at the Lone Star Conference tournament. 

On Sunday, I covered my last men's soccer game, taking pictures of the 90 minute game. The irony of men's soccer being the end to my year after being the first home sporting event I went to didn't escape me. But it seemed to be a fitting end as soccer is by far the sport I've gotten most attached to this year.

Even though I still have one article to write, I feel like I've pretty much ended my career in the sports and it's been a ride I would never take back. The opportunities I've had this year due to them, and the friends I've made, are memories I'll remember forever

But sports weren't the only exciting opportunity for me this week. While the weekend was busy, the last two days have been insane.

When I was little, I was obsessed with the Titanic. History has always fascinated me and the massive "unsinkable" ship grabbed my attention. So when I heard the man that discovered the wreckage was coming to WT, I jumped on the opportunity to go listen to him speak. 

But even better than that was when I was asked by Eternal Flame to take pictures of the event. If you don't know, even when there's not an official press pass, if you have a notebook and a camera most official people will let you go in places not normally allowed.

So with camera in hand, I made my way up to the steps of the stage and they let myself and my two other friends sit on the steps while they had other students that had lined up around us move to different places. Because of this, I was only about 3 feet from Dr. Robert Ballard while he spoke. This gave me some awesome opportunities to not only take pictures but really absorb all the information he threw at us. 

Dr. Robert Ballard during his speech.

While he didn't talk much about the Titanic, his other discoveries were just as cool. The overall presentation was pretty awesome and was a great start to the week.

My week "finally" ended on Tuesday night with the best event of the week for me (no offense to my sports!). Last Wednesday, I had gotten a text from the Eternal Flame editor (I'm starting to see a theme here) asking what I was doing on Tuesday night. It just so happened that she had a press pass for Bill Clinton and she was wondering if I wanted to go take pictures again. 

While the press area wasn't exactly what I was expecting, thanks to my ubber cool zoom lens (I seriously love that thing), I was able to get some awesome pictures of the president from about mid court where the press box was set up. Unfortunately due to time constraints, we didn't get to interview him (the speech went for an hour and a half, when it was reported it would be under an hour) but just seeing the president and being part of the press was an amazing experience. Of all the things I've experienced in my time here at WT, and even in my life, this will go down as one of the best.

Bill Clinton

In only 17 days, I leave the panhandle pretty much forever unless something happens (except for visits) to move on to new adventures and I have learned a lot and had a ton of good times. But with all the experiences I've had, my undergraduate career saved the best for last and it's definitely a week I'll never forget.

Until next time,

Mel

Opportunity Awaits

Wow, it's been a long time since I came to my blog. I guess I can blame my busy month for that. In March, I was only in Canyon a total of 12 days. The first part of it was due to a two week spring break but the second part was due to work.

Almost exactly a week after I got back from Spring Break, I repacked (okay, that's a lie, I never unpacked, just kind of threw clothes everywhere to condense everything into a smaller bag) and loaded into a van with a bunch of the paper people for a trip to Corpus Christi to compete at a paper conference.

While a weekend at the beach was amazing, and I had one full day of nothing but beach time, I didn't do too hot at the actual onsite competition. However, one of the handful of my pictures our yearbook submitted did get second in the Sports Action Photo division and that led me to think of how lucky I've been this year.

First of all, I started rocking the boat at both The Prairie and Eternal Flame. But it was November that really got me rolling. I literally started the month in Kentucky and enjoyed opportunities I never would have dreamed of even last year. Not only did I get to visit some of the best farms in the nation, if not the world, I also got to go "behind the scenes" at Churchill by watching works from the gap and got to enjoy time in the press box between races at the Breeders' Cup. That was literally the best week of my life and made decisions for me that I never really even realized I had.

This was followed by one of my big time projects going to regionals in the National Broadcasting Society and actually winning the division. This was even more of a big deal because it was an audio package, something that I've never even experimented with before I put this together.

This was followed a month later by winning Staff Member of the Semester for Eternal Flame.

But even though I had a lot of success at school, my biggest moments of the (school) year have come from those in the racing industry.

After the Breeders' Cup, I got more involved in the industry when it came to talking to others and this opened up a whole new world for me in the last few months. While I already have the USEF internship and am not making any moves until I figure that out and see what comes after, I was given some leads on racing journalism jobs.

I also got more "prominent" in the journalism thing and was told about media teleconferences and such (one that I did today). I even was given a chance to interview Steve Asmussen about one of his Derby potentials.

While I am set for the next six months or so of my life, I do have some questions about where I'll go after then. But looking at everything I've experienced the last few months... life is about to become just a little more clearer when it comes to ideas in 2013.

The Power of Social Media

If you know me, you know that I am enamored with social media. I am one of those crazy people that always has Twitter open when I'm online and most of the time, I have Facebook open as well. While I am well versed in the growing importance of social media, it wasn't until around September of 2011 that I finally really started realizing how important websites that connects people are. 

First, let's start with the little bird that has gripped the nation.

I've had a Twitter account since about 2009 but to say I wasn't using it to the best of my ability is an understatement. I only had about 20ish followers and probably half of them were spambots. I also only tweeted my articles, I had no dialogue with any followers and I bet to most of followers, I was about as good as the spambots. 

Finally in September, the switch flipped that had me think "hey, maybe this is a good way to get my name out there and brand myself". Little did I know that it would become so much more.

I started out by talking to a ton of people, both from school and the people I followed. Slowly but surely, I gained more followers and started networking. Not only was I talking to my friends on Twitter, but I was also having meaningful conversations with people in multiple industries. By having those conversations, I slowly worked my way into what industry I mainly want to focus on (the horse racing people I talked to quickly reminded me why I should return to the horse industry, hence part of my blog a few weeks ago). With the positive response I got from these people, especially when holding a conversation about important issues, I stretched out farther and it paid dividends.

Finally, I was being recognized for my horse racing articles in the NTRA Notebook, something I consider to be a huge deal. I also made it into the Paulick Report, by giving opinions on questions they asked. To say Twitter helped me get into an industry that I may have had trouble getting into without the resources it provides would be a discredit to the technology.

I have much the same story with Facebook. I've probably been on Facebook since my Junior year of High School but *gasp* used it more like Myspace. However, again like Twitter, I realized the power of it this school year. It did take me a little more time to adjust to making my Facebook more professional (something I still struggle with at times) but out went the old too personal posts and in came a new group of "professional" friends, including some athletes that I cover on the school's sports teams. 

At first, I used this new power to connect for interviews in addition to getting to know the people I was talking to on a regular basis better. But as my confidence grew with both my experiences on Twitter and Facebook, I decided to reach out and see what would happen if I approached one of the people I admire most in any industry.

I am a HUGE fan of Three Chimneys Farm and when Jen Roytz joined the farm a few years ago, she became my inspiration for school. So when she accepted my friend request on Facebook, I was ecstatic. I mean, come on, one of the people I admire most became my Facebook friend. Then I decided that I had nothing to lose by trying to talk to her and sent her a Facebook message. She replied and that's about all she wrote (no pun intended) when it came to me getting stuck on social media (and reaffirmed my teenage self's idea that the horse industry is the friendliest one out there).

My love of social media has grown ten-fold in the past few months and as I get closer to graduating, I see just how important it is. Not only do I feel that social media is important to growing one's own brand but it is important to industries that want to not only survive but bring in more fans. 

Now it's time convince said industries that making their way to social media, and effectively using it, is worth it. I'm seeing a lot of baby steps happening in communications departments in coming years,

A Lesson in Life After Graduation

For the last time in my undergraduate career, I am on break at home in Washington. Spring Break for WT officially arrives tomorrow but due to my light class schedule I hopped on a plane on Tuesday to hang out here for two weeks. I expected to take the time off and not really learn anything... once again, I was proven wrong. In fact, I even got a glimpse at life after graduation. 

The first day and a half I was here, there was nearly no talk on facebook about school. But today, Facebook has blown up with "we are doing this or that at school/in the prairie lab". Since I am almost always in the Prairie lab or somewhere at school, this is extremely weird for me to see. In addition, I had a few friends tweet and facebook me about how weird it was not to have me in Canyon.

It hit me today after getting a few of these messages and seeing the statuses that for the rest of my life (or until my friends graduate), this is how life will be after May. I will see these updates, maybe get a few tweets or facebook messages about how I'm missed, etc. No longer is Spring Break just a break. Instead, it is a look into what lies ahead after May. And man, is it scary. The one thing I have going for me on *this* change is that I'm at home so it's not a total change for me but what happens when I move to Kentucky and I'm mostly alone and have to establish a new group of friends? I don't really want to think about that right now. 

For now, I'm going to enjoy the next two months (64 days) and not worry about the next step in my life when it comes to the social aspect. I've passed my senior capstone class with my interview last monday so while I still have eight weeks of classes, a research project to start, and my Fulbright application I am going to somewhat relax for the next eight weeks and soak it all in.

This break may be full of lessons but it's definitely not going to give me a panic attack like it would have in January. It's time to fully embrace what is coming, not hope that this part of my life never ends.

A Lesson in Patience... and Confidence

“A horse is the projection of peoples’ dreams about themselves – strong, powerful, beautiful – and it has the capability of giving us escape from our mundane existence.”
- Pam Brown

Keeping up the theme from last week, it's time for another horse blog.

Almost seven years ago, the love of my life (sorry guys, you don't have a chance to take her spot) gave birth to a palomino tobiano filly. Little did I know at 4am in the morning when she was born that I would be on the adventure of a lifetime.

To say I cleaned up with that foal a year later in in-hand classes would be an understatement. She was extremely professional in the ring for only being a yearling (heading to the ring was another story).  But as I grew up and moved to college, she spent more time in the pasture than doing anything productive, so when I got the chance to move her down to Texas this year, I jumped on it.

Even though this horse is seven, with the lack of work I've put into her over the past few years, she's more at the stage of a four or five year old (if that) but can act mature at times. 

When I got her to Texas, she was a dream for the first several weeks. She rode like a dream and I thought we were getting somewhere with her training. But slowly, little signs started popping up, which led to a bigger problem.

By late November, I was truly frustrated and hated riding her so I let her sit and relax for the few weeks before I left for winter break, giving her a month and a half break just to relax. But when I got back, I still had the same problems. My horse was stressed out in the arena and all of our rides end in frustration and accomplished nothing.

Finally, I took a step back and evaluated everything from an outsider view. First, with the stress my horse seemed to be displaying basically all the time, I decided it wouldn't hurt to treat for ulcers and grabbed some aloe vera juice to see if that would help (its apparently a good cure for ulcers). 

I gave that a few days to start working then moved back to riding. But instead of pushing my horse and getting exercise in, I took it easy in the arena. We worked on walk/trot transitions and did absolutely no cantering. My goal was to keep her relaxed while also getting some work done.

Finally today, she was responding well and seemed relaxed enough that I decided to give it a try. Our first attempt at a lope was a little rusty but there was little fuss in the few times I cued for it and by the end, we were loping pretty much at the cue (something we've always had a bit of a problem with). During one of these intervals, I realized that something that my mare needed was confidence. And really, it makes sense why.

I had shipped this horse 1,700 miles, taken her from a pasture to a stall with a run, and basically isolated her from other horses (after my roommate sold her horse, there was no one next to her), THEN I had pushed her harder than she's been pushed since she was broke as a 2-year-old. If there was a way to do something wrong, I did it.

And like many lessons horses have taught me, Vegas once again taught me that I needed patience (as soon as I backed off and was patient enough to wait for her to show me she was ready, we were successful) and that I need to remember to build the confidence of my mount. On the ground, I can ask this horse for anything and she'll do it, but under saddle, she's not as sure of herself and I need to reassure her that she is doing fine and will be okay.

So I guess like always, it's time to salute my mare and thank her for teaching me a lesson that is also useful with humans. Who says horses aren't good teachers?

Until next time,

Mel