Happy 200th Birthday Pride & Prejudice

When I planned my blog for this week I had no idea that we were approaching the 200th anniversary of Pride & Prejudice (bad me) so plans changed today when I was enlightened about the fact that my favorite book/movie/YouTube series is 200 years old (of course the movies and YouTube series aren't turning 200 but the book that made it all happen is).

Like millions of females around the world, Pride and Prejudice's story line sucked me in. I mean, who wouldn't want some ubber rich man with a house like Pemberley to fall in love with them? And here is where my blog turns into a thought provoking, yet probably rage inducing one sided discussion.

Jane Austen is one of my favorite authors and I have all of her books, both on my Nook and in paperback. But something that took me a long time to discover (I can be a slow learner when I don't want to see something) was that Jane Austen has screwed both men and women over. Women are waiting for Mr. Darcy to come into their lives while men are trying to overcome the battle with Mr. Darcy's image for the attention of women. 

As a woman, I won't lie, I have a romantic vision in my head of what my perfect husband should be and a lot of those characteristics include things that relate to Darcy (I personally prefer Matthew Macfadyen to Colin Firth but that's neither here nor there). Granted, I (nor any other woman, I would presume) don't want a man to tell me that he fell in love with me in spite of my family's fortunes but other than his snootiness, Mr. Darcy is kind of the perfect man. He falls in love with Lizzie despite all his insecurities about her and literally saves her family from that century's doom by paying for her sister's wedding to his arch nemesis. 

That's definitely perfect man material... it also gives false hope to all women that every man they find will be just like the fictional character. So thank you Ms. Austen for giving modern writers the idea of creating unattainable men with Darcy and your other male leads... and thank you for giving us men like Wickham so we know who to avoid. Now if only we could figure out how to create our own Darcys in our own real life stories.

And for those that are looking for a modern adaption of Pride & Prejudice that stays new and fresh... I present the Lizzy Bennet Diaries: 

Until next time,
Mel

Hola

Hey everyone,
 
I think it's safe to say that I had a blogging fail this month without even realizing it, as I just saw that I haven't posted on here since Jan. 1. For those that follow the blog for updates on me, sorry about that. 

Like usual, life has been extremely busy but there's not much to write home about as we're just gearing up for Triple Crown season at work and I've also been doing my communication internship at Three Chimneys. The internship involves a lot of press releases and research but I'm loving it. I'm currently only working one day a week there but if it gets especially busy, I may go to two days a week later in the season.

I also signed up for a 5k a few weeks ago but have run into a problem in my training. I thought that I'd be fine with 7 weeks left since I haven't gone the ~3 miles yet in training but now we're down to 5 weeks with the same problem. So I'm beefing up my workout playlist tonight and booking it around the track (or on the treadmill in my case right now) in the coming weeks with a no holds barred approach. I'm blaming most of my problem on a mental block so my goal is to get over that, which isn't as simple as it sounds.

And for my last bit of info... I have officially joined the cat lady club (I can hear my friends laughing now). In a move that I had been thinking of for a few weeks, I went to the shelter on Friday (with a friend that didn't plan on getting a cat when we went there but did) and brought home a 3yo female that looks a lot like my dad's cat. She's quite a bit nicer than my dad's cat (my mom will be glad to hear that) and is almost dog like and overall is pretty cool. And from all the comments I got about her from other racing people, it sounds like I'm not the only one in this club.

So without farther ado, here's Bella (although, she usually does not have that expression, haha).

Good night everyone.

Bringing in a New Year By Looking at the Past and Moving Towards the Future

During the beginning of each year, I find it fun to make resolutions and look back on what I wrote the year before. When I did this as a teenager I was usually disappointed to flip back in my journal or find my “resolution” piece of paper and see that I didn’t keep any of them. Thankfully, that doesn’t seem to be the case this year. So just for the fun of torturing myself by looking back to the beginning of 2012, here are my resolutions from last year.

1) Graduate- Check
2) Get fit- Somewhat check… see this year’s resolution for more info.
3) Eat Healthier- Check
4) Write more- Definitely check
5) Do something outside of my comfort zone- Check… my last semester of college definitely accomplished this.
6) Get back to me- Last year the last sentence of this goal read “I need to learn how to balance new and old and that's a big goal.” I did that in college but after I graduated, I kind of failed on this one, oops.
7) Get a kick butt internship- Check
8) Ride more- Check during school… not so much now
9) Blog more- Check

Overall, I did pretty good in 2012. I’d even venture to guess that this was my best year resolution wise. Of course, leaving behind one list of resolutions means that I have to create another. Thankfully for my sanity, this list is much shorter.

1) Meet more people – What kind of resolution list would this be without a self-improvement item? I’ve lived in Lexington for almost seven months now but during the first six I was afraid to really create a social life since I didn’t know if I would be staying and building a bunch of relationships just didn’t sound like fun if I was leaving again. Now that I am here for the long haul, it is time to act like it.

This is probably my hardest resolution because I am not a very social person when it comes to new people. If you know me, you know that I usually don’t shut up after I get to know you but before that, I am extremely shy. The one thing college and high school did not prepare me for was to meet new people on my own. All of my college friends came from getting to know them through hours of time together studying in the lab while most of my high school friends came from barrel races and my equestrian team. You don’t really have that as an adult. I think the first step here is finding a place to hang out where I can meet people but that’s much harder than it sounds.

2) Read 40 books – I’m pretty sure that I achieved this in 2012 but since my book list was stolen with my phone in May, I’m officially doing it. With the amount of books I read, I don’t think this will be hard but I guess I’ll find out.

3) Run a 5k- I’m four weeks into the Couch 2 5k right now and start week five on Wednesday. I was told that I would never be able to run a marathon or 5k when I was having back problems a few years ago but I am determined to prove those words wrong.

4) Visit another country – The past two years I planned on moving to another country. In 2011, I was going to study abroad in Toronto (Canada) for a year but that obviously did not happen. My plan just 12 months ago was to be in England right now attending graduate school and unless Kentucky is England, I didn’t do that either. With LH going to South Korea to teach for at least a year, I plan on visiting her sometime during this year. 

It’s going to be a bit hard since I have a wedding in Florida to go to in June and I am planning on taking a few days to move the horses here in the spring which is about a week trip, but I am determined to make my other country visit work. My long time goal is to leave the country at least once a year for a vacation or work but for now I’m just focusing on 2013.

5) Avoid petty arguments - I will full admit that I am an overreactive person. If someone tries to start an argument with me without making it into an actual discussion, I get fired up and jump in with both feet (although, I have gotten better on both fronts) This has got me into arguments that just weren't worth my time and in the new year, I'm going to let more stuff roll off my back or at least bring a roll of duct tape with me everywhere I go. It's much easier than wasting time on stuff that was said just to be contrary. 

Goodbye to the Old, Hello to the New

Happy last day of the year and congratulations for surviving the “end of the world”. I took a few weeks off of blogging due to the craziness of the holidays and the whirlwind trip to Washington for Christmas. But I’m back and decided to do a nice little “reflective” post on the year because honestly, there isn’t much else to talk about from the two weeks I was gone. So here’s a quick recap of 2012.

I started 2012 in the middle of a freak out. I was entering my last semester as an undergraduate student and when I left WT for winter break, I had convinced myself that I needed to stay an extra semester to get my minor. This was mostly due to the thought that I wasn't ready for the "real world" after spending 20 years in school. Thankfully winter break talked me out of that idea, even after my advisor and friends had failed. Just a few weeks into the new year, I landed my USEF internship, which went from three months to six after I decided that graduating in May was for the best. This definitely helped keep my worrying about the future at bay for a while, giving me time to freak about other things (like WT telling me I needed some more things to graduate the day that late registration for classes closed 4 weeks into the semester).

A lot of school things happened during the first half of the year but it was mostly a blur of college and friends that went way too fast (except for February, who knew the shortest month of the year could make itself so long). But I made it through it (mostly) alive and after traveling 5,400 miles in 2 ½ weeks after graduation, I moved to Kentucky after dropping my horse off in Washington.

While I came to Kentucky with one set of goals, they slowly formed to another set. Moving to Kentucky was definitely the best thing I’ve done career-wise as I found opportunities here that I wouldn’t have in any other place. I learned a lot from the USEF and in the fall made my move to the racing industry when I got my first real journalism job at the Paulick Report. Working seven days a week was a bit of an adjustment between PR and the USEF but I survived. During the last month of the year, I was hired as a full time employee at America’s Best Racing doing a job that I am passionate about by promoting horse racing.

There have definitely been some ups-and-downs this year but I can confidently say that it probably tops the list of years in my life. Now it’s off to see if 2013 can do the same.

It's Almost Christmas!

It is well-known that before December 1, I don't think Christmas deserves to get a ton of attention. Most of that comes from Walmart having decorations out in August but that's a rant for another day. As we are well into December, I feel like Christmas cheer is allowed here. Plus, Christmas time means that I get to see my girls. 

For most people, girls would be human but it's established that I'm not human so for me girls means horses.

Granted, I am excited to see my family and friends and I'll be spending a ton of time with them during the four days I'm there, but I can call and text them so I'm not really isolated from them while here. When it comes to the horses, I can't really see or talk to them when I'm here. And really, who could not be excited to see this face (ignore mine).

On the work front, I basically jumped right into work on Wednesday. I was trained on the CMS on Wednesday and Thursday and was doing some things that needed to be done video wise on the site only a few hours after I started. I also got to write my first story with ABR that day (ignore the date) and attend meetings going over plans for 2013 so overall it was a pretty successful first day. I've also got an exciting thing coming down the pike in 2013 with them but I'm in the preliminary stages of planning it out right now so I won't unveil it quite yet.

Tomorrow my boss (MC) is off so I am all alone in the ABR section of the office. I am a bit worried since I only have four days under my belt but I'm going in to tomorrow with some confidence that I can't totally mess the site up in less than 48 hours. MC comes back on Wednesday so I'll have support in my office again. Friday is my last day before Christmas and I get to book it up to Louisville after work to chill out at AG's house for the night before getting to the airport at 4am. It's definitely going to be an interesting flight schedule both this way and back with early morning and late night flights and drives but I'm the freak that thinks stuff like that is fun.

Before I leave you for the night, I want to share this picture of the European wonder Frankel's 3/4 brother Bullet Train. It's one of my favorite pictures from when I went to go see him since it's not the normal head on shot or have him centered type of shot. Playing around with weird angles is successful at times.

Plans change

Wow, it has been a long time since I last wrote here. When I originally planned this blog post, I was going to write it on December 1st so I wouldn't have to worry about it for a week after I landed in Vancouver today. But unless I'm mistaken, this is not Vancouver and my plans to blog over the past month have obviously taken the wrong path... but more on that later.

First, a quick update on my living situation for the past month. I moved out of the last place I was staying at in the beginning of November after some... tension with a roommate. It was a crazy time but I survived and all is well. I'm currently in my own apartment and it is nice to not have to worry about offending anyone, doing stuff right away, etc. Plus, I finally got internet (the lack of which I am blaming for the blog lag), so I am reconnected to the world after a month away.

My internship also ended last week, which was a bit sad since I had finally really got the hang of everything in the past month. Even though the internship wasn't exactly what I was expecting when I moved here in June, I did learn a lot and it also helped me to shape my goals. When I first came here, I had a plan laid out but as I spent more time here and experienced some things, that plan gradually changed. 

In September, I took the job with Paulick Report and an internship with Three Chimneys, which changed everything. I still had my plan of grad school in England for Fall 2013 but it was pretty clear that I was going to be staying in Lexington for a while so that plan began to form with apartment hunting, etc.

Over the past few weeks, that plan has changed even more. I received an offer that I would have been stupid to refuse and here I am in Lexington, KY with my Christmas vacation plane safely landed in Portland, Oregon. Funny how just three weeks ago, I was looking forward to a month-long break before coming back to start my internship with Three Chimneys while working on the weekends with the Paulick Report. Now I spend this week taking a staycation in Kentucky before starting a full time job at America's Best Racing (part of The Jockey Club) next Wednesday. It is something that will farther my goals and I'm definitely ready to start that part of my career soon.

While Three Chimney's internship is still part of my plan with this new adventure, the Paulick Report unfortunately is not and I only have a few more days working with them before I move on. As for heading to Europe/England/Ireland, I'm still working that detail out (a vacation in Ireland sounds nice). But for now, my roots are pretty much firmly planted in Lexington and it's time to start actually making a life here with friends and all that jazz which was something I wasn't a big fan of doing when I didn't know if I would be packing up and leaving soon. But now that I am indeed a Bluegrass resident, the time has come to stop being a hermit. Now to learn how to do that and find a social life... it looks like Kentucky still has a few things to teach me.

But for now... it's onward and upward and this quote that I just saw on Twitter seems perfect for this blog.

           "We don't know who we are until we see what we can do." - Martha Grimes

P.S. For those of you that think I am extremely blonde, I didn't miss my plane today, I just rescheduled it for a shorter vacation. I'll be driving up to Louisville for my flight in about 2 weeks.

What just happened?

If you are reading this, I am officially saying “Welcome to my crazy life”. To say that this week has been full of ups and downs would be an understatement. I didn’t blog last week due to the intense Breeders’ Cup festives that had me working crazily on both normal duties and extra articles. On top of that, Nano started so it was full of crazy but not nearly as crazy as the weekend.

The weekend started normal with my usual get up at 6:30ish for work on Saturday. The night before I had spent some extra time out watching the first day of the Breeders’ Cup after work at Keeneland and prepared for the next day of even more Championship races. Within 16 hours of waking up, I was looking for place to move and by Sunday evening, I was out due to a difference of opinions with a roommate.

18 hours after that, I was filling out an application for an apartment and here I sit on Thurday, a little over 24 hours out from signing a lease on said apartment. Yes, it has definitely been a crazy week.

But in addition to the craziness, I have kept myself in the race side of things. On Monday, I went to the Fasig-Tipton night session where I saw some of my favorite racehorses of the last few years. The 2011 Horse of the Year Havre De Grace sold for $10 million and my favorite little trier, Switch, sold for $4.3 million after running third in a Breeders’ Cup race just three days before. Tuesday and Wednesday found me with limited internet and the Keeneland November sale getting over hours before I got off work so I took sort of a “forced” break but I’m back tonight (Thursday) for part of a Keeneland session after work unless they continue going as fast as they are right now.  

This weekend continues the “busyness” that is my life between moving for the second time in five days (and something like the fifth time this year) and work but now that the stress has passed over, I’m finally able to focus again.

Now I just need to find that part time job I told myself I’d get while I’m doing Paulick Report and my new internship during the winter and I will be set!